asambl/Modules/Relationships01·Connection planning
Connection Planning

The people
who matter,
planned for.

asambl helps you stay ahead of the dates and people you care about most. Without becoming a contact-scraping CRM.

Birthdays, anniversaries, the friend you keep meaning to call. The next 21 days, planned around the people you choose to keep close. Your contacts stay on your phone. Always.

Connection plan

The next 21 days
people who matter

Private

Top of mind

  • in 9dFather's birthdaylow-cost gift, gift drafted
  • in 16dPartner's anniversarydate night planned
  • in 19dFriend's weddingRSVP done

Planned this week

  • Sat evePartner · Cook together at home
  • Sun morningFather · Phone call before the trip
  • Tue eveOld colleague · Long-overdue lunch

One small gift note

+ Father's gift: a shortlist drafted, decision by Wednesday.

02·A month of drift

We forget the people
who matter most.

Until it's too late, then we feel terrible about it for a week.

Birthdays slip past. Anniversaries get caught in time only by accident. The friend you keep meaning to call goes another month, then another. The people most important to your life quietly receive your scraps. Most relationship CRMs respond by scraping your address book and turning your friends into a pipeline. asambl does the opposite.

A month of drift

18152228friendfatherpartnersisterold friendDATES THAT MATTERED · MOST PASSED UNNOTICED

Birthdays, anniversaries, the friend you keep meaning to call. Drift through inattention, not intention.

03·What it is

A planning layer for the people in your life.

Not a CRM. Not a contact book. Not a social feed.

You name who matters. asambl plans the next 21 days around the people you care about most. The plan lives inside your wider week. Your contacts stay on your phone, untouched.

i

Plans the next 21 days of connection

Upcoming key dates, planned blocks, gift prep notes. All shaped to your wider week, not your contact graph.


ii

Doesn't track your contacts

You name who matters. asambl never reads your address book, your social accounts, or your inbox. The whole point.


iii

Lives inside your wider plan

Connection blocks become real time blocks in your week. The plan stops being a contact list and starts being your life.

04·A real connection plan

This is what the module
actually produces.

A typeset plan for the next 21 days of connection. Key dates, planned blocks, gift prep notes.

Not a screenshot. The plan itself.

Connection plan

The next 21 days
people who matter

Private

Top of mind

  • in 9dFather's birthdaylow-cost gift, gift drafted
  • in 16dPartner's anniversarydate night planned
  • in 19dFriend's weddingRSVP done

Planned this week

  • Sat evePartner · Cook together at home
  • Sun morningFather · Phone call before the trip
  • Tue eveOld colleague · Long-overdue lunch

One small gift note

+ Father's gift: a shortlist drafted, decision by Wednesday.

05·Privacy by inversion

asambl never touches
your contacts.

Privacy isn't a feature here. It's the whole positioning.

Most relationship apps treat your social graph as the asset. asambl refuses. We don't read your phone, your email, your social accounts, or your calendar contacts. You name the people who matter manually. That's the whole point.

Your relationships data lives on your machine. asambl never receives it. If you use a cloud AI provider, only the prompts you send go to that provider, under your own API key.

Privacy by inversion

Anti-CRM

asambl never touches

  • Google Contacts
  • LinkedIn
  • Facebook / Instagram
  • Your email inbox
  • Your phone's address book

What it uses instead

  • The people you've manually named
  • The dates you've manually added
  • The connection blocks you've planned

asambl never receives your relationships data. Your vault is local. If you use a cloud AI provider, only the prompts you send go to that provider, under your own API key.

06·Built for

People who care deeply about their relationships and refuse to put them into Big Tech's data graph.

Tired of forgetting birthdays. Tired of CRMs treating their friends like accounts. Tired of every app wanting their address book. Want connection planned the way they plan everything else.


Not a CRM. Not a social network. Not a messaging app. Not a shared calendar. asambl is a private planning layer for the people you choose to keep close.

07·Part of the wider plan

Connection blocks
feed the Weekly Planner.

A Saturday with your partner. A Sunday call with your father. A long lunch with an old friend.

Each connection block becomes a real time block in your week, color-coded rose, sequenced around work and the rest of life.

Calendar excerpt

  • Sat 18:00Cook with partner
  • Sun 11:00Phone father
  • Tue 13:00Lunch with old colleague

Pushed to your calendar, color-coded, never to a CRM.

08·Common questions

About Relationships.

01

Does asambl read my contacts?

No. asambl never touches your contacts, your email, your social accounts, or your calendar contacts. You name the people who matter manually. That's the whole point.

02

Is this a relationship CRM?

No. CRMs treat people like accounts to optimise. asambl helps you act on the connections you already care about. Different category entirely.

03

Where does the data live?

On your machine. asambl never receives your relationships data. Your vault is local. If you use a cloud AI provider, only the prompts you send go to that provider, under your own API key.

09·Ready when you are

Plan around the people
who matter.

Without becoming the product. Join the beta and get the Relationships module the next time it ships.